Stage 1: THE LYING PHASE
He reveals to her untruths, for example, "I need to wed you", "I will never abandon you", "Be a housewife and I will deal with you, you don't have to work", "I am a monogamous man, I just have space for you".. A few men state these words not on the grounds that they mean them, but rather on the grounds that that is the thing that the woman needs to hear. Such men will say anything in the at this very moment, yet really don't mean them. Before long they change and contend for polygamy, state they don't have affections for the lady any more, call her apathetic when she remains a house spouse for a considerable length of time
Stage 2: WITHDRAWAL PHASE
He starts to do less of what he used to do before to make her vibe unique. He never again invests energy with her, never again compliments her, he ends up chilly and mean. She doesn't remember him any longer, so she starts to annoy and whine and he pushes her further away and makes her vibe isolated; disregarded and dismissed
Stage 3: THE REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY PHASE
He starts to point the finger at her for everything incorrectly, even the things he is liable of. He makes her inquiry her rational soundness, influences her to apologize for his deficiencies. He cheats however discloses to her she is the wrong one to experience his telephone and find his undertakings. He pounds her at that point censures her for standing up to her to get truth out of him.
Stage 4: THE ISOLATION PHASE
He removes her family and companions. He removes any emotionally supportive network she may have. She feels compromised to tell anybody things are not OK among her and him. He ensures she has no companions to raced to, for her entire life spins around him. She winds up dreadful
Stage 5: THE EMOTIONAL TRAUMA PHASE
He begins to affront her, to extort her and quietness her voice. He calls her whore, a washout, terrible, fat, uneducated, a miscreant that he helped, pitiful in bed, languid, useful in vain, a disappointment and utilizations the touchy things he thinks about her and her past against her
Stage 6: THE LOW SELF-ESTEEM PHASE
He makes her uncertainty her value and excellence. He starts to make another lady or ladies feel exceptional yet he deprecates her. On the off chance that he has been having an illicit relationship, presently he transparently and boldly gloats about the other lady. She starts to feel she isn't adequate, sufficiently delightful or sufficiently provocative
Stage 7: THE FINANCIAL SUPPRESSION PHASE
He ensures that he exclusively relies upon her and she has no coin to herself. Each property and riches is under his name. She is excessively subject to him.. She is cornered. She can't go anyplace in light of the fact that she has no cash and is confined. On the off chance that they have youngsters, she stays since she fears where she will begin as a mother with no cash
Stage 8: THE DOMINATING PHASE
He detains her in a dangerous relationship/marriage. She feels frail and laments consistently meeting him, cherishing him and bearing kids for him. He pounds her, until the day she will get herself out of this jail
I compose this to go about as a mirror for men to take a gander at themselves and inquire as to whether this is the thing that they are doing to their ladies. Numerous men are gradually wrecking their own relational unions and the ladies they once sought after with adoration. On the off chance that you are such a man, change. This is out of line, this isn't the heritage you need to be associated with.
I compose this for ladies to evaluate their circumstance and to alleviate it before it deteriorates. A man ought not come into your life to demolish you for the sake of affection. Love doesn't come to quietness you, it comes to hear you and construct you.
He reveals to her untruths, for example, "I need to wed you", "I will never abandon you", "Be a housewife and I will deal with you, you don't have to work", "I am a monogamous man, I just have space for you".. A few men state these words not on the grounds that they mean them, but rather on the grounds that that is the thing that the woman needs to hear. Such men will say anything in the at this very moment, yet really don't mean them. Before long they change and contend for polygamy, state they don't have affections for the lady any more, call her apathetic when she remains a house spouse for a considerable length of time
Stage 2: WITHDRAWAL PHASE
He starts to do less of what he used to do before to make her vibe unique. He never again invests energy with her, never again compliments her, he ends up chilly and mean. She doesn't remember him any longer, so she starts to annoy and whine and he pushes her further away and makes her vibe isolated; disregarded and dismissed
Stage 3: THE REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY PHASE
He starts to point the finger at her for everything incorrectly, even the things he is liable of. He makes her inquiry her rational soundness, influences her to apologize for his deficiencies. He cheats however discloses to her she is the wrong one to experience his telephone and find his undertakings. He pounds her at that point censures her for standing up to her to get truth out of him.
Stage 4: THE ISOLATION PHASE
He removes her family and companions. He removes any emotionally supportive network she may have. She feels compromised to tell anybody things are not OK among her and him. He ensures she has no companions to raced to, for her entire life spins around him. She winds up dreadful
Stage 5: THE EMOTIONAL TRAUMA PHASE
He begins to affront her, to extort her and quietness her voice. He calls her whore, a washout, terrible, fat, uneducated, a miscreant that he helped, pitiful in bed, languid, useful in vain, a disappointment and utilizations the touchy things he thinks about her and her past against her
Stage 6: THE LOW SELF-ESTEEM PHASE
He makes her uncertainty her value and excellence. He starts to make another lady or ladies feel exceptional yet he deprecates her. On the off chance that he has been having an illicit relationship, presently he transparently and boldly gloats about the other lady. She starts to feel she isn't adequate, sufficiently delightful or sufficiently provocative
Stage 7: THE FINANCIAL SUPPRESSION PHASE
He ensures that he exclusively relies upon her and she has no coin to herself. Each property and riches is under his name. She is excessively subject to him.. She is cornered. She can't go anyplace in light of the fact that she has no cash and is confined. On the off chance that they have youngsters, she stays since she fears where she will begin as a mother with no cash
Stage 8: THE DOMINATING PHASE
He detains her in a dangerous relationship/marriage. She feels frail and laments consistently meeting him, cherishing him and bearing kids for him. He pounds her, until the day she will get herself out of this jail
I compose this to go about as a mirror for men to take a gander at themselves and inquire as to whether this is the thing that they are doing to their ladies. Numerous men are gradually wrecking their own relational unions and the ladies they once sought after with adoration. On the off chance that you are such a man, change. This is out of line, this isn't the heritage you need to be associated with.
I compose this for ladies to evaluate their circumstance and to alleviate it before it deteriorates. A man ought not come into your life to demolish you for the sake of affection. Love doesn't come to quietness you, it comes to hear you and construct you.
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